18 September 2014

Organizing Life Planner for Daily

As I mentioned in several posts ago, I promise to give my blog reader to give my own design of organizing life planner. Actually I have plan to give it all together in one blog post. But, unfortunately because I'm too busy with my wedding preparation, the day, the moving time to Taipei, and also new registration for new students in campus, I can't do that.

But, I will give one thing in here... the Daily Life Planner and Daily Budget.



And of course..in PDF format so all of you can download it for free through dropbox... ^^

Those two planner, I made them first. why?

Because... if you want to learn to be organized, learn the most simple thing first,.. Daily Life.

This Daily Life Planner is designed for Muslim. Because it has the Hijriyah date place. So, Muslim will know what day in Hijriyah calendar is that day. Therefore, they can find out what deeds like fasting or other things that they can do on that day.

Also it has Prayer checklist. Not only 5 times a day, but 8 times. In here I try to encourage Muslims to also pray Sunnah everyday.:)

Mmm and don't forget to have Qur'an supplementary and book (any kind of books). You can put the first and last page of the book. So, you won't lost the next time you want to read your book.

It also have the morning and before bed task. With this, you will try to do it everyday and will not forget for example like put out the trash, serve breakfast, put it the newspaper, etc. I always forget to put out the trash before I go to bed, that'swhy I put the before bed task in here. haha

I also put the daily budget box in this daily planner. Why? Because sometimes...I can handle my ahnd to m pocket. I always try to buy something unnecessary. hahaha So, I have to try to be disciplined.I believe some of you also do the same. haha

Nah... exercise and drink a lot of water are needed for every human every day in life. Because it is healthy. My husband always did that and he is very healthy. But, i need to try harder for this.

Of course... the reminder to do fasting for Muslim. Maybe like Monday-Thursday fasting or another fasting day. :)

Don't forget to put the Goals and Quotes of the day. They are important for reminder what you have to finish each day.

The most important thing is the To Do List. This to do list, yo have to try every morning after Morning Prayer to sit down and write what you have to do in that day. Detailed is needed. You will be happy, trust me, in the end of the day, if you can check list all of your written to do list. ^^

Another thing is the Daily Budget. As my experience, as a student or maybe a housewife, we have a strict budget because we con't have a lot of money to spend with.

We have to spend for school fee and eat. Or maybe books or any other necessary things. But, if we still keep buy and buy unnecessary things, you will lost! remember that! haha

So, my solution is to make a daily budget for every day and write down whatever I spend on that day in this paper. Therefore, in each week I can count on how much I spent every week. Then, every month.

In that case, for the next week or month I will know how I spend my money so I'm not gonna lost with myself. haha

Also, in here I put a grocery shopping list. Why? Because
sometimes when I go to market to buy groceries without write it down, I'd like to buy a lot of things that not in the list. And after I buy them, I will regret it. -_______-"

Okay, so that's it for this post. I will continue the organizing life planner for weekly in the couple days later.

Hope it can help you... ^^

You can download those through this link...
--- Daily ToDos
--- Daily ToDos 2
--- Daily ToDos 2 Color
--- Daily Budget
--- Daily Budget 2
--- Daily Budget 2 Color


Be a Bride : What is it look like?

That question... is hard to answer. But, a lot of my friends ask me about that...right after my marriage day. haha

Okay i will explain a little bit in here. Only a little bit... haha

Karena pernikahanku dilaksanakan dengan cara tradisional, jelas berbeda dengan apa yang biasanya dilakukan orang-orang pada umumnya. Bapakku ingin pernikahan yang serba jawa...di resepsi. Tapi untuk akadnya, bolehlah agak modern dikit. xixi

Jadi.. sehari sebelum resepsi, malamnya kami mengadakan Akad Nikah dengan baju serba putih dan dengan suasana yang sangat khidmat. Aku tidak boleh ada di ruangan. Aku berada di luar. Ceritanya sih, aku bingung di luar ngapain. Secara ya semua orang di dalam ruangan. Sedangkan aku, ibu, dan adik-adikku yang perempuan berada di luar. Dekat pintu masuk. Mmm alhasil kami ketawa ketiwi ga jelas. Sampai ibuku mengingatkan kalau kami harus serius. ~(^.^)~

Setelah suamiku (ceileeehh) , saat itu masih calon suami, mengucapkan ijab qabul, kami dipersilahkan masuk. Aku duduk di sebelahnya dan diminta untuk menandatangani buku nikah and of course...pasang cincin. hehe


Lalu, mejanya dipindah, dan semua undangan bersalam-salaman, lalu foto-foto.

And...done. hahaha

Aku ngerasa kejadiannya sangat cepat. Seperti mimpi.

Bahkan mungkin sampai sekarang aku masih merasa.. "oh iya aku sudah jadi istri orang"

Karena bisa dibilang aku juga tidak tahu  rasanya bingung persiapan pernikahan. Ibuku yang menyiapkan segala sesuatunya. Secara aku di Taiwan dan baru pulang sebulan sebelum menikah karena harus sidang dan lain sebagainya..

Besoknya kami baru mengadakan resepsi. Pagi harinya. Capek sih...namanya juga pernikahan. Mengundang keluarga dan teman dekat... itu luar biasa.

But, I'm happy!!!!
The best day of my life!!!

Bisa bertemu teman-teman dan keluarga besar itu luar biasa... tidak hanya di lebaran saja tapi kami juga bisa bertemu di acara pernikahanku.

In the end...i can see... the feeling is incredibly awesome!!

15 August 2014

Seconds to Life Changing Moment


Masih ingat di dalam emori otak ku...masa-masa ketika aku masih kecil hingga beranjak dewasa.
Semuanya...semuanya... berhubungan dengan orang tua ku. Ibu dan Bapak.

Diajarkan tentang segala sesuatunya tentang hidup...survive.

Belajar berjalan...membaca...menulis...menghadapi situasi...agama...segalanya...

Aku lebih sering membuat mereka sedih mungkin daripada bahagia. Kenakalan yang aku buat selama ini.
Ketika aku kecil, aku bahkan pernah masuk ke dalam sumur karena aku nakal.
Aku pernah jatuh dari sepeda motor akibat sudah dilarang orang tua tapi masih saja kulakukan...
Aku pernah tenggelam karena tidak menurut saat disuruh menggunakan pelampung.

Bahkan masih saja...kemarin ibuku menyuruhku untuk makan... "nak, makan dulu..." atau "nak, ayo shalat..." dan juga "nak, kamarnya ayo diberesin...

Tidak bisa terbayang bagaimana jika aku hidup sendiri tanpa mereka.

Tapi, saat-saat itu telah tiba.

Hari ini... mereka harus melepaskanku...kepada seorang lelaki yang menjadi pilihanku.
Hari ini... aku harus rela berpisah dengan orang tua ku dan hidup bersama suamiku...
Hari ini... aku harus belajar untuk hidup sendiri dan mandiri bersama suamiku...
Hari ini... aku harus belajar menduakan mereka setelah suamiku...
Hari ini... aku harus belajar berbicara dengan suamiku terlebih dahulu sebelum ke orang tuaku...

Namun,

untuk selamanya...mereka tetap orang tua ku...

Orang tua yang membesarkanku...
Orang tua yang menyayangiku...
Orang tua yang mencintaku...
Orang tua yang mengajariku tentang agama...
Orang tua yang mengajarkanku berbagai hal tentang hidup...
Orang tua yang tidak pernah bosan memarahiku karena aku nakal...
Orang tua yang tetap memberiku semangat...
Orang tua yang tetap memberiku sandaran akan hidup yang indah ini...
Orang tua yang selalu memberiku dukungan akan semua yang akan aku lakukan...
Orang tua yang telah mendoakanku...
Orang tua yang selalu dan setiap saat membantuku...
Orang tua yang membuatku menjadi seperti sekarang...

dan untuk selamanya...
aku akan tetap menyayangi mereka...
Mencintai mereka tanpa syarat...
Mendukung mereka...
Memberikan apapun yang mereka butuhkan dan inginkan.

Hari ini...
Segalanya akan berubah. 
Aku akan mulai hidup dengan suamiku.
Tetapi tidak akan berubah hubungan ku dengan orang tuaku.

Hari ini...
Hidup ku akan berubah. 
Bukan akhir.
Tapi, awal dari segalanya.

Bismillahirrahmanirrahim...
 بَارَكَ اللَّهُ لَكَ وَبَارَكَ عَلَيْكَ وَجَمَعَ بَيْنَكُمَا فِي الْخَيْرِ

04 July 2014

My 1st 10 days of Ramadhan in Taiwan

The holy month is in here again... I'm happy I still can meet with Ramadhan and do what Allah told us to do. Find Allah's door of rahmah for this first 10 days of Ramadhan.

As we know that Rasulullah Muhammad SAW ever told in hadist that :

1. First 10 days of Ramadhan is Rahmah. Allah will give us a lot of rahmah for this days, so it is better for us to do many good deeds and leaving ad habits.

2. Second 10 days of Ramadhan is Maghfirah. The days when Allah will give us forgiveness about all of our mistakes if we do Taubah Nasuha. So, It is better for us to do many Tahajud Shalah, dzikr, and ask Allah to forgive us.

3. Last 10 days of Ramadhan is avoidance of hell's fire. Many things we can do in these days especially many praying to Allah, ask forgiveness, and also find Lailatul Qadr, which is a day when Al-Qur'an come to Rasulullah Muhammad SAW. Even we don't know the exact night but we still can try with do Taajud ever night and pray.

So, how about the condition of my first 10 days in Taiwan?

This is my second chance to have Ramadhan in Taiwan. This year... is very hot rather than last year. I don't know why. So, it makes our fasting become harder. But it can't be the reason we didn't do fasting, right? Therefore, most of us will stay at dorm room and do our productive tasks or go to lab, as long as there is AC there. haha

Alhamdulillah... I am very glad that this year we have a lot of good activities, like Sahoor Together, Arabic Study, Qur'an Study, Iftar Together, and Tarawih Jama'ah.

For me... this year's Ramadhan is my point of my start. I want to be better than before.

I know that I've became not a good person before. Many things I've done that maybe not good and I want to ask forgiveness from Allah.

I write this in here, so many people can be witness of my point of change.

I wanna be helpful and valuable for people around me. Not only just be me and do whatever I need to do for myself, but also for another people.

Bismillahirrahmanirahim...
Astaghfirullah...
Alhamdulillah...
Please Allah.give me strength in this Ramadhan...




02 July 2014

Travel Pouches for Organized Muslim (Travel Series)



Today's post is all about pouches that I use for travelling and what's inside those pouches. As a Muslim, we have to keep all our things clean. Because Allah love everything clean. Not only our body but also our stuff. That's why since last year I started to organize my stuff for travelling, so they will not going to be dirty or mixed up with everything in my bag.

Now... I will show you what kind of pouch I have for different things when I travel. :)

First... the most important one... don't forget to bring your Al-Qur'an.

I have a small pouch that I use for keeping my Al-Qur'an save. Because sometimes, if I go travel, the day changes so much, rain can make my Qur'an wet. Even if I use water resistant bag, sometimes wet can't be expected.

My friend gave me this Al-Qur'an several years ago and I love this Al-Qur'an so much. Because it has translation (Indonesian translation) and also Tajwid. So, I'm just recite but also study the meaning and tajwid. Therefore, I can improve my understanding of Islam.

Second... the second the most important thing is... Mukenah (I don't know the english of this) or pray clothes for Muslimah and Pray Mat.

I have this small pouch that was given by my mom a year ago. She got this from her friend who went to Taiwan. It is funny that she gave to me who live in Taiwan, now. hahaha

But I like this puch so much because it fits perfectly with my mukena. The material of my mukena is paracute. So, it can be folded until very very small. And it is also cheap if you buy this mukenah in Indonesia. In Taiwan... ohh so expensive. Because the store need to order from Indonesia first. -__-"