That's what my lab mates asked me today...
and i just keep thinking why and why...why the information is like that?haha
i just keep wondering why they didn't ask me about how the sceneries, bali, or another things, but that?
it's interesting...hahaha
So, i explain to them that's not the case...
Actually not all Indonesian man like that...
Just several people that have not a really good mind or crazy that have more than 4 wife...hahaha
Just because of Indonesia is one of the largest muslim population in the world, they think that way. but, not just because of that. maybe because of the media.
I said to them that actually Muslim man can marry maximum 4 wife but need to fulfill the requirement before do that. Not just in Indonesia but in the world. Muslim man can marry but no more than 4.
And the requirements are the 1st wife need to be agreed and he can be fair with all of his wife.
Sometimes, muslim man want to married again not because he didn't love his first wife...but they have several reason such as maybe because his first wife cannot pregnant and they wanna have a child or because the man wanna help a woman that have difficulties in life maybe because of she is poor or something.
But, in Indonesia recently...there is a news about someone who has more than 25 wife and right now live with 8 wife. He is muslim man. But, yeah for me...he is crazy and don't know about Islam very well.
If he know Islam's rule...he won't do that...
Maybe because of this kind of news, people in the world tend to say "Indonesian man can have more than 4 wife?? is that true??"
And when they asked me, "so you will gonna married someone who has many wife?"
and i said "NO and NEVER... I wanna be the ONE" ^.^
and i just keep thinking why and why...why the information is like that?haha
i just keep wondering why they didn't ask me about how the sceneries, bali, or another things, but that?
it's interesting...hahaha
So, i explain to them that's not the case...
Actually not all Indonesian man like that...
Just several people that have not a really good mind or crazy that have more than 4 wife...hahaha
Just because of Indonesia is one of the largest muslim population in the world, they think that way. but, not just because of that. maybe because of the media.
I said to them that actually Muslim man can marry maximum 4 wife but need to fulfill the requirement before do that. Not just in Indonesia but in the world. Muslim man can marry but no more than 4.
And the requirements are the 1st wife need to be agreed and he can be fair with all of his wife.
Sometimes, muslim man want to married again not because he didn't love his first wife...but they have several reason such as maybe because his first wife cannot pregnant and they wanna have a child or because the man wanna help a woman that have difficulties in life maybe because of she is poor or something.
But, in Indonesia recently...there is a news about someone who has more than 25 wife and right now live with 8 wife. He is muslim man. But, yeah for me...he is crazy and don't know about Islam very well.
If he know Islam's rule...he won't do that...
Maybe because of this kind of news, people in the world tend to say "Indonesian man can have more than 4 wife?? is that true??"
And when they asked me, "so you will gonna married someone who has many wife?"
and i said "NO and NEVER... I wanna be the ONE" ^.^
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